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Growth Climate - Relationship Help and Tests for Emotional, Sexual, Spiritual, and Physical Abuse - Assesment
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Frequently Asked Questions
  1. What is the "Test Your RelationshipTM Profile?
  2. How long does it take to complete the relationship profile?
  3. What if I don't have enough time to complete the profile or my computer goes down unexpectedly?
  4. What is the "Test Your Relationship" class?
  5. How would I benefit from taking the "Test Your Relationship" course?
  6. How do I contact Test Your Relationship?

  1. What is the "Test Your RelationshipTM Profile?
    Test Your RelationshipTM is a dating relationship profile created to help you find answers to serious questions that may be gnawing at you. The profile has 240 items that permit you to evaluate various aspects of your dating relationship. You will come to see the following:

    A. How family interaction patterns that you and your dating partner experienced can impact your current relationships.
    B. How your dating partner's family members treat each other now can be a window into your future family life.
    C. How others respond to the person you're dating.
    D. Your dating partner's social interaction patterns.
    E. How he or she treats you when you are alone versus when you are in public.
    F. How you and your dating partner's communication patterns can affect your relationship.
    G. The kinds of abuse you could be experiencing or should be aware of (physical, psychological, emotional, verbal, sexual, spiritual).
    H. The kinds of traits and behaviors you have seen in your dating partner.
    I. What his or her belief and value systems are.
    J. How your dating partner's religious beliefs could affect you.
    K. What his or her attitudes are toward laws, rules, and policies.
    L. Your dating partner's attitude toward or the observable impact of his or her drug or alcohol use.
    M. How his or her money-spending habits and employment situation could impact your relationship.
    N. What your dating partner's beliefs are about his or her education and career.
    O. Whether or not he or she is committed to following their instincts.

    Once you have responded to each of the inventory items, you will submit your answers to our computer database. We will then transmit to you our feedback based on your answers. The report will contain the following:

    • A detailed response to all 240 items in the profile.
    • Things that should be of concern to you about your relationship.
    • Things that are positive and should encourage you about your relationship.
    • A summary report of each of your answers indicating predictable rights and behaviors of your dating partner. In other words, using your observation report, we will compile a detailed report of where a boyfriend/girlfriend falls in regard to the behavior modes of freedom, fairness, force, or non-resistant stressee.

  2. How long does it take to complete the relationship profile?
    Completing the dating relationship profile will take about 30 to 45 minutes. You will not be bored. You will find that your awareness regarding what to watch for in relationships will increase.

  3. What if I don't have enough time to complete the profile or my computer goes down unexpectedly?
    The system will save all of the answers that you input on each page once you click the "Next" button at the bottom of each of the profile's pages. So if you are in the middle of a page and your power goes out, an emergency arises, or you run out of time etc., then you can pick up at the beginning of the page you left off on. To do this simply log back in to your account and the status of your order will be "Partially Complete". Click there and it will take you back into your profile on the page where you were last.

  4. What is the "Test Your Relationship" class?
    Accompanying "Test Your Relationship" is a class designed to teach you how to identify potential problem areas in your relationships. In this six-hour course, we profile three common approaches people have to relationships. We also discuss the overt and covert manipulation tactics of abusers. The first half of the class teaches you how to avoid marrying someone who is wearing an emotional mask during the dating relationship. The second three hours of the class teaches you how to create healthy and strong relationships. We talk about how individuals and couples can implement 5 principles into their relationships in order to create a deep and loving bond. We role-play dating situations and answer any questions you have.

  5. How would I benefit from taking the "Test Your Relationship" course?
    All single people will benefit from this course. Do you want to date with confidence, knowing that you can identify the people who are not good for you? Would you like to feel confident that you have the skills to create a healthy relationship? No matter what stage of life you are in, whether you have been divorced or not, this class will help you. Here's how:

    Divorced - If you have been divorced, you will learn how to avoid the same pitfalls that you experienced in your previous marriage. Did you know that remarriages are much more likely to end in divorce than first marriages? Individuals who have experienced the dissolution of their marriage will learn how to avoid the pain of going through another divorce.

    Seriously Dating or Engaged - If you are currently dating someone seriously or are engaged, you will learn to be confident that you are marrying the right person for you. You will also learn how to remove "rose-colored" glasses and take an objective look at your dating partner.

    All Single People - If you are presently single, this class will give you knowledge about your relationship before it is too late. Learn what "red flags" to watch for before you are very emotionally involved with someone. This class will prepare you to enter the dating world with great confidence in your dating skills and in yourself. You will also learn to avoid unhealthy relationships before they get too serious.

  6. How do I contact Test Your Relationship?
    Test Your Relationship can be contacted by clicking on the Contact Us link at the top of the page, emailing us at our contact page or by calling 801 224-2525.

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