How many times have you wondered why you feel a lack of intimacy in your relationship?  I think we all find ourselves wondering that at some point in time or another. 

What is the key??  It's the little things.  Intimacy is not a big bang moment, it is a little moment in time that touches your life.  Children are very good at creating intimate moments.  They are constantly inviting us into their world to play, hang out, and do something fun.  It could be time spent building blocks, bouncing a ball back and forth, and or sitting reading a book. 

As an adult, we tend to become so task oriented that we forget to sit and simply enjoy a moment.  Sitting together on a park bench enjoying the eveing together or holding hands while walking down the street.  These are intimate moments. 

Take time today to do the simple things.  A hug, a complement, an unexpected phone call.  Don't get stuck constantly looking for the BIG moment.  Create the little moment and in so doing you will realize that is what truly creates intimacy in your relationships.