Growth Climate

Response to Traumatic Event
Please respond based upon your current feelings and emotions. For simplicity purposes when we use the word (Behavior) we are referring to sexual misbehavior or involvement with pornography.

How did you respond to discovering your partners behavior?


1. I experience intense feelings of indescribable fear since discovering my partner's sexual behaviors.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
2. I have feelings of helplessness since discovering my partner's behaviors.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/occasionally Never
3. My partner threatens to hurt me in some way if I do not comply with his/her sexual fantasies.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/occasionally Never
4. Due to my partner's sexual behaviors I have become concerned that I might contract a sexually transmitted disease.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/occasionally Never

Reoccurring thoughts
This purpose of this section is to determine if the experience of discoverying your partner's sexual behaviors is persistently reexperienced in your life.


5. Since discovering my partner’s behaviors, I can’t look at him without thinking about them.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
6. I have strong memories that remind me of my partner's participation in sexually inappropriate behaviors.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
7. I have disturbing dreams that remind me of my partners sexual behaviors.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
8. When my partner wants to be close to me I cannot help but question whether my partner is thinking about me or things he/she has done.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
9. I accuse my partner of engaging in inappropriate sexual behaviors without having any evidence to suggest he/she has.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
10. I have episodes where I feel like I am reliving the event over and over again.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
11. I have a hard time with media because so many things remind me of what my partner has done.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
12. I have a hard time being in public places with my partner because I have become highly sensitive to what my partner has done.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/occasionally Never
13. Since discovering my partner’s behavior, when I see sexually suggestive images I feel anxious.	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never
14. If I am exposed to things that remind me of what my partner has done, I suddenly become physically ill (i.e. nauseous, head aches, anxiety, vomit).	Always More often than not About half the time Rarely/Occasionally Never

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